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Sunday March 14, 2010


So, 266 honored me with this crazy "Creative Writer" Blogger Award award! The rules are:
 
1. Thank the person who gave this to you.
2. Copy the logo and place it on your blog.
3. Link to the person who nominated you.
4. Tell up to six outrageous lies about yourself, and at least one outrageous truth.
5. Nominate seven “Creative Writers” who might have fun coming up with outrageous lies.
6. Post links to the seven blogs you nominate.
7. Leave a comment on each of the blogs letting them know you nominated them.

So, you all know I am not the "passing on" type of person BUT how about any of you out there that read my blog, do this exercise & let us guess the truth! Lots of fun! 266 - THANK YOU for this! Only problem is I am pretty boring in general so I had to dig deep for this!

OK, here we go. Can you pick out the true one????

1. Under Armour, Nike, New Balance, Saucony, Adidas and all the other sports/fitness clothing & equipment companies are pounding down my door asking me to be their exclusive fitness model AND I get to try out all their new shoes, clothes & gadgets for free as part of the deal!!!

2. Oxygen Women's Fitness & Muscle & Fitness Hers along with Shape & Fitness magazine want me to do full 3 page spreads working out.

3. Oprah AND Ellen have asked me to be on their shows to discuss fitness after 50. Oprah even wants me to be on the cover of her magazine with her!!! They even have What Not to Wear there to help me out of my fashion blindness!

4. Jillian & Bob asked me to guest on The Biggest Loser & I get to work out with them!!!

5. I have my own reality show coming out about crazy women 50 and over that compete in the gym with women half their age & perimenopause/menopause rage is not a reason to disqualify anyone!

6. The Housewives of Orange County asked me to personal train them and they are going to pay me SIX figures to yell at them & whip them into shape!

7. I have placed in & won a couple 5k's and competed & won two bodybuilding shows.

I KNOW! I made it easy on you but wanted to have fun with it!!! I would love for any of the first 6 to happen if any of you out there have ins!!!! Well, maybe not #6 cause I don't kiss a** so if they want me to help them get in shape, expect no mercy!

Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PS: I found a dress!!!! You will have to wait until after the wedding for me to show pics!

PPS: I know on the cake in yesterday's post! I took a bite from my oldest stepdaughter's piece. If my hubby had been there, I would have taken 3 bites from his!

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Bridal Shower Update!

Saturday, March 13, 2010




















So, you recall that a couple weekends ago I went to my youngest stepdaughter's bridal shower. I wrote about it here. It was a lot of fun & the house was decorated beautifully with flower arrangements & all kinds of pretty "stuff". I am so not good at that kind of thing! They also had hired people to make crepes.. food & dessert ones. I thought I would share some pics of the event below. Of course, that is the happy couple above! The wedding is in 2 weeks!!!!! I still am searching for a dress!!!!

THE BRIDE TO BE


THE FOOD TABLE - Crepes were being made outside to the right there. The oldest stepdaughter in town for this is in the purple. She will be back with the whole family for the wedding!


THE CAKE


THE BRIDE TO BE OPENING GIFTS


THE BRIDE TO BE & HER BOW BOUQUET WITH THE FRIEND THAT MADE IT


It was a fun time for all! I will have pics of the wedding after the big event!

Have a great weekend! I will be back tomorrow with truth & lies!

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Protein & Protein Powder Recipes

TGIF Friday, March 12, 2010

So, many of you out there may use protein powder in your protein shakes. BUT, there are lots of other ways to use it. I add it into my oatmeal & non fat Greek yogurt. I have also posted about my homemade protein bars. Well, I came upon a couple sites with some very interesting ways to use protein powder. I have been experimenting with the recipes for a few weeks now & definitely like them! I sometimes make them as is & other times & play a bit even though I am NO cook! BUT, one of them involves NO cooking!!! Just protein powder, water & whatever else floats your boat! Check out a couple of the recipes from Foods of April below & then check out her site when you have time for more recipes.

Protein Cookie Dough: The first pic is vanilla protein powder/1 tbsp PB. The second pic is chocolate protein powder & 1 tsp of PB.
From Jody: I used PB2 in mine to cut down on calories & fat depending on when I eat it. I also have added cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice & other goodies just to experiment.



Ingredients:

  • 30 grams of protein powder (my favorite is chocolate!)
  • 1 tbsp water
  • 1-3 tsp peanut butter (crunchy is best!)
  • Cinnamon

Directions: Mix all ingredients together. You can stir in the peanut butter or eat it on top!

From Jody: I have made this without peanut butter too like April and it’s still yummy. I also have to play with the added water to get the consistency I prefer. I like it thicker but some may not.

Dark Chocolate Protein Batter: From Jody: I love this one too! I only have vanilla protein powder in the house so I add in 100% organic cocoa powder. Experiment to see how chocolaty you want it.

Ingredients:

  • 30 grams (1 serving) of Biochem 100% Whey Chocolate Fudge Protein Powder
  • 1 tsp 100% cocoa powder
  • 1 heaping tbsp water

Directions: Mix!

Spiced & Plump Pancakes: Per April, the cream of tartar helps plump these a little. Also, spray your griddle even if it is non stick. I learned that the hard way! Play around with the ingredients or check April's site for other variations.

Makes 1 serving @ 220 calories, 15 net carbs, 21 grams of protein

Ingredients:

  • 1/4 cup oats
  • 2 tbsp psyllium husks
  • 1/2 cup liquid egg whites
  • 1 tbsp flaxmeal (ground flaxseed)
  • 2 tbsp pure pumpkin
  • 1 tbsp each low-fat cottage cheese or yogurt and water
  • 2 packets stevia
  • 1 tsp baking powder, cinnamon, ginger, and cloves (I actually don’t measure these)
  • 1/2 tsp cream of tartar

Directions:

  • Preheat griddle to medium-high heat.
  • Mix all ingredients with a blender, food processor, or hand mixer.
  • Pour onto the heated griddle and cook for about 3 minutes. Flip and cook an additional 2 minutes.
  • Enjoy! Top with a little something if you want!

From Jody: Lots more recipes on her site!

Keeping with this theme, Lori over at Finding Radiance had this recipe for Pumpkin/Ricotta protein batter on her blog the other day. That is my name for it as Lori did not "name" it.

Mix: ricotta, vanilla protein powder, pumpkin pie spice, heaping tbsp of pumpkin.




Over at Nourished Fitness, I found this yummy recipe.

Cinnamon Roll Quinoa Protein Muffins

1 c Cooked Quinoa

2 scoops BSN Cinnamon Roll Protein Powder

3/4 tsp Baking Powder

Cinnamon to taste

Stevia (2 packets, or dash of extract)

2 tbsp Coconut Oil

1/3 c Unsweetened Vanilla Almond Breeze

1 tsp Vanilla Extract

1.5 tbsp Egg Whites

Pre-heat oven to 350 F and spray muffin tins with non-stick spray. Mix dry ingredients. Melt Coconut Oil. Mix Coconut Oil into dry ingredients. Mix wet ingredients, then combined the wet & dry. Spin into 6 muffin tins. Bake for 15-20 min. depending on your oven.

Top with..

Fitness Frosting

1 scoop Cake Batter Protein Powder

1/4 c plain Greek Yogurt

1 tsp Vanilla Extract

1 packet Stevia or dash of Extract extract to taste

Other great toppings could include natural Nut Butter or sugar-free fruit preserves.

From Jody: I read in her comments that the nutrition facts do NOT include the topping. Also somebody asked about replacing the quinoa with something else. She had not tried that but suggested maybe oats. I guess you will have to play with it if you want to do that. And if you are like me & only have vanilla protein powder in the house, I guess you can add more cinnamon or play around with it for taste.

And of course the Nutrition Facts..

Hope you all enjoyed the shared recipes & there are more on their websites as well. Do you have a recipe you want to share? Let me know & I will do a post with your recipe & link love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dr. J and PLAY!

Thursday, March 11, 2010




“Dr. J”Dr. J offers his irreverent, slightly irrelevant, but possibly useful opinions on health and fitness. A Florida surgeon and fitness freak with a black belt in karate, he runs 50 miles a week and flies a Cherokee Arrow 200.

Many of you already know of Dr. J. He writes over at Calorielab here. Yes, he is back writing there again.. YAHOO.. BUT he kindly agreed to guest post here again! I am very excited to have Dr. J in the house! He even pokes fun of me! HOW DARE YOU, Dr. J!!!! Just kidding! Without further adeui, Dr. J on PLAY! Check him out playing in the pic!

Dr. J and Play!

Although it seems hard to believe with the way the weather has been this winter, spring is right around the corner! At least somebody’s corner. I just heard this morning that we have had one of the coldest winters in 100 years!

Now we all know what a serious, hard working-out woman Jody is. But I have a feeling that with a little scientific information to do the coaxing, it won’t be hard to convince her that it’s important to add play time to our lives!

The need for play

We live in a serious world! Just watch the evening news and see how serious that is! Some health care providers feel that to be happy, you should not ever watch the news! If you try this for a while, you will
find that you are really not missing much, except, perhaps things to be depressed about.

Recently, an article in the New York Times discussed the importance of play for children. Interestingly, Robin Williams, as a young child, was alone much of the time. Because of this he invented all these imaginary friends and voices to play with. Eventually this led him to develop his incredible
skill at imitation and brought him fame and fortune as a multi-faceted comedian.

In the Times article on play, scientists cast a serious look at play and what role it may have in our development.

Play, in their view, is a central part of neurological growth and development - one important way that children build complex, skilled, responsive, socially adept and cognitively flexible brains… Biologists generally have used phrases like “apparently purposeless activity” in their definitions of play. The definition proposed by Gordon Burghardt, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of Tennessee, refines that phrase a little. In his 2005 book, The Genesis of Animal Play, he wrote that play is an activity of “limited immediate function.”

Animals play, but only if they are “adequately fed, healthy and free from stress,” Burghardt says.“One popular view is the play-as-preparation hypothesis,” the Times article says. “In this perspective, play evolved because it is good preparation for adulthood. It is a chance to learn and rehearse the skills you will need for the rest of your lives, and to do so in a secure environment, where mistakes will have few consequences.”

Looking into it further, newer theories focus on the way that play “might contribute to the growth and development of the brain.” Without the benefits of play, we may be “less able to make subtle adjustments to the social world.” Or as we say, they won’t play well with others! Scientists believe that “play contributes to the growth of more supple, more flexible brains.” Or put more simply, think of play as “training for the unexpected,” as evolutionary biologist Marc Bekoff calls it. “Play, he says, leads to mental suppleness and a broader behavioral vocabulary,” which helps us achieve success in important ways.
In addition, “without play, there’s a sense of dullness, lassitude and pessimism, which doesn’t work well in the world we live in.”

It’s not just for kids.

This ain’t just childs’ play! Play develops your mind, and this process doesn’t just stop when you become an adult. The brain continues to develop throughout life, and play is an important part of this process. Add play to your life, seriously!

When I first began my flying adventures, I read a book of stories about aviation by a favorite author and pilot, Richard Bach, called The Gift of Winds. In one of the short stories, he comes to the conclusion that
“Flying is practicing what it is to be alive!” When Richard Bach suggested that, he might as well have been describing play!

So why do I fly? I just wants to have fun and play in the sky!

Maybe Jody and family will ride along one day!

Thx Dr. J!!! What do you all think? Do you get enough play or are you too serious or busy? I would stick around to discuss this all with you but Dr. J has convinced me that I need to go out & play. Leave your comments & I will get back to you after play time! Catch ya later!

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Weight Loss Sanity! Happy Bday Sydney!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

























 

So, yesterday, I asked you to come back once again for more of my dieting reality & insanity post. And yes, there is more to come BUT first:

HAPPY 11th BIRTHDAY to Sydney!!! She is the first grandchild born & had like one year all to herself before the baby makers in our family started making more! Where has the time gone????? So, the pics are of Sydney now & cute baby Syd with my hubby, her granddad. The pic below is my fav pic of Sydney & I! We miss you & wish we could celebrate with you BUT will see you soon for Jen's wedding!!!!



OK, back to regular programming! Dieting reality, weight loss help & stop the insanity!
So
Monday I had a bunch of great advice from ACE on "dieting", weight loss & healthy living. Great comments by all of you. Thank you!

Yesterday we talked about Insanity - "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing year after year and expecting a different result." I really think it is so important to get a hold on this! This is not saying that you should not reprogram your taste buds & try certain foods a few time. Most studies show that especially with children, it may take up to 10 tries of eating healthier foods to get them on board, especially after a family has been feeding them junk for years.

NO, I am not talking about that! I am talking about going on a low card diet too many time to count because you want to lose the weigh fast, then losing the weight & putting it back on because you love carbs so much that what you really need to do is make a food program that incorporates healthy carbs but also allow for some treats. The weight loss is slower BUT your chances of keeping it off are much higher.

OR, don't keep going back to the gym if you hate it so much that you stop every time. There are plenty of options to working out at home OR classes offered like kickboxing, martial arts, dancing and more! There are outside activities like bike riding, hiking, walking, rollerblading, swimming and more as well!

I love the gym & get better workouts there but not everyone is like me. I also am not the biggest fan of cardio BUT I do it & a lot of it. I don't hate it but I am not a big fan. BUT, I do like the accomplishment & how it makes me feel & look!!! As Dr. J wrote in the comments yesterday: I would like to suggest that when you are looking for an activity that you like, to realize that for most successful people, liking to exercise may have nothing to do with their "just doing it." Sometimes being able to say, " Just DID it," is the best you are going to get I suggest finding an activity that you can DO, is more important than liking it. Who knows, maybe over time you will like it, or like the results you get. Just saying.

Dr. J's approach may not be for everyone BUT I hate to say, I agree. For some, what they do may not be their fav thing BUT they may like the results enough to "tolerate" it but then end up really liking it. Definitely something to think about!

Also, find the time of day right for you. I am a morn person & love that... plus nothing can stop me later in the day. Many of you work & we know how meetings, family & kids can stop us in our tracks. SO, if you are a morn person, go for your workout then. If not, SCHEDULE it in like any other meeting & DO NOT SKIP IT! If you are asked to do something, say you have a meeting!

On Dr. Oz, I saw Deepak Chopra say something that I have wanted to write about for a while. I am paraphrasing but he said, people think about the now in terms of food. When that piece of cake is set in front of them and all those other foods they don't say no to, they are not thinking about how that will effect them in the future. They are not thinking that this weight on them will give them heath issues or possible a heart attack a few years from now. They can only think of the now & the enjoyment now. He asked for people to think about what it means long term before they put that stuff in their mouths. Think about how this will effect your life long term rather than right now. It was an interesting take on this.

I got a couple great comments on Monday post that spoke directly to this & want to share them with you:

From Roy, at Roy Cohen's Contemplative Fitness: For years my tag line was, "Every time we put a spoon to our mouth one of 2 signals goes off:

A) This is good for me and I'm going to eat it.
Or, This is NOT good for me and I'm going to eat it anyway.

After that, it's all about choices.

We know right from wrong, and we have a passion for choosing wrong.

From Jody: Now that says it right there! I am going to eat it anyway... we do this & maybe we have to stop & think first for a change! we DO have a choice!

From Jack at Jack Sh*t, Gettin' Fit: This journey is a lot like socking $$$ away for retirement. Unfortunately, a lot of folks don't (or can't) look down the road and see that the work and sacrifice they make today is what's going to make all the difference down the road.

From Jody: Again, think about that! Take stock out in your health & wellness! Think down the road in terms of your health!

Again, I ask for your thoughts on all this. Are you taking out stock in your health, wellness & life - lifelong? Are you taking stock out for your family, loved ones & kids as well? If we are taking care of us, then we are better for the family and a better example as well.

Dr. J is in the house tomorrow writing about PLAY! Check back!

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Dieting Reality - Tomorrow Is NOW!

Tuesday, March 9, 2010






























Yesterday I had my ACE fitness health post. In it was the statements below & I asked you to come back for more today:

If you’ve ever watched the popular television reality show “The Biggest Loser,” you know that a healthy diet and physical activity is a winning combo for weight loss success; and even more critical in trying to maintain it. What the Hollywood producers don’t tell us, however, is that several contestants have ballooned back to their original weight or regained significant pounds months after leaving the show. That is because they no longer live in a controlled and supervised environment competing for “drastic and unrealistic” change. A true lifestyle change means slowly adapting to healthier behaviors in everyday living.

Now saying this, we know that many have kept the weight off too & most likely saved their own lives. But on the flip side, many have not kept it off. Back in November 2009, I wrote a post about Insanity and Weight Loss. I put this quote in that post: "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing year after year and expecting a different result." Please take a moment to read this post if you never got to OR re-read it if this statement is calling to you & sounds all to familiar.

Then, in November 2009, I wrote this post: Eating & Weight Loss Reality - Tomorrow Is NOW. In that post was the below:

BUT, we all know for every success story, there are many that put the weight back on & that was the case with Eric, a winner from a The Biggest Loser a few seasons ago. Eric has put on almost all the 200+ pounds he lost on the show. They met up with him and he said this about what he told himself: TOMORROW IS THE DAY THAT THIS DOES NOT GO ON ANYMORE AND I KEPT LETTING THE TOMORROWS GET AWAY FROM ME.......

Well, after the end of last season of The Biggest Loser, they invited Eric to come back at this season's finale & show that "he can do this". That he can get back to being healthy again. If I recall, Eric said that the limited diet & the crazy workouts were too stressful for him. Bob even told him that he has to find a better way. Find workouts he likes to do & take a more sensible approach to eating better. I think Eric was going to try the boxing workouts like what I did at LA Boxing.

So, I was watching something last week and low & behold, a story on Eric. Remember, he was going to take the slower sensible approach to losing that weight for this season's finale. So.... he was at The Biggest Loser Camp and per the show he was on 1100 calories per day & working out 6 hours per day!!! Doesn't this sound like exactly what he did on the show & did not work for him the first time!!! Insanity, I would say! Doing the same thing that did not work for him last time. How will he sustain the loss this time if he lost the weight the second time by not learning the slower & more sensible approach that he can live with day in and day out. He even admitted to the fact that this type of approach to weight loss was not right for him.

Listen, I REALLY REALLY REALLY hope Eric keeps the weight off this time. I like him a lot but I don't get that he went back to this type of way to lose weight. To me, I am thinking he was not going to meet a certain goal by the season finale so the "powers that be on the show" asked him if he wanted to do the Biggest Loser camp so he would look great for the finale. I may be wrong but that is the way my thought process goes! Personally, I would rather have seen him a bit heavier BUT losing the weight in a way every day folks do, not the 6 hours per day & very limited calories for him!

I am really curious to hear your thoughts on this. Did anyone else see this story on Eric? I understand the premise of the show but the point with Eric was to get him off the roller coaster ride that did not work for him the first time. We all have to find the right way for us. There is NO ONE RIGHT WAY. The way that is right is the one that is going to help you get off the roller coaster & sustain health & fitness life long! Let me know what ya think!

So, as you are probably guessing, I have more to say on this tomorrow but a little different take for your minds so please check back!

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Diet & Fitness Health!

Monday, March 8, 2010



Don't we all want to feel as great as those people in the picture above? I saw this great article from the American Council on Exercise, ACE, and had to share. Definitely things to think about & help you through your weight loss & fitness journey which is LIFE LONG, by the way! I hope you can read it all the way thru & I have made my own comments in red. You don't have to do everything at once! Take smaller steps towards your goals. Just keep replacing not as good habits or bad habits with better ones little by little & before you know it, you are living the healthy life & jumping for joy like those people above!!


With daylight savings time rapidly approaching, it is time to awaken the body and get out of hibernation mode. Spring forward means more skin to bare and more time to play outdoors after hours.

Whether you’re looking to shed extra holiday pounds or are ready for healthier living, you may be surprised to learn that a few small changes in your daily diet and activity level can pay huge dividends to your health.

Consider the analogy of saving for retirement in trying to achieve well-being: It takes patience, regular contributions and commitment, being able to ride out the lows and highs of the financial markets, and most of all, time, to reap the financial rewards to carry you through your golden years.

Drastic changes to your daily diet or a sudden burst of exercise could earn you some short-term health benefits, but the costs of regaining unwanted body weight or suffering an injury or burn-out from doing too much too soon can offset any gained benefits.

To reap the rewards of lifelong good health, start small.

Be Physically Active

Being active is critical for good lifelong health: According to government recommendations, healthy adults should exercise at a moderate intensity, such as a brisk walk, at least 2.5 hours a week and engage in muscle-strengthening activities twice a week.

It is especially critical for aging adults to meet these minimum recommendations to maintain health and basic functional capacity. However, greater amounts of activity are required to gain more substantial health and fitness benefits: Five hours of weekly moderate-intensity physical activity or 150 minutes of vigorous physical activity or a combination of moderate and vigorous activity. I think this is important. Yes, there are MINIMUM requirements BUT if your goals are to lose a good amount of weight or have muscles & be leaner or maybe try out a 5K or something like that, you are going to have to put in more time depending on what the goal is for you.

If you need motivation to get started on a regular program of exercise or are looking to get the most out of your workouts, consider hiring an ACE-certified fitness professional in your area. If you have an existing health condition, always consult a physician first.

Being physically active on a regular basis is critical to achieve overall well-being. It will help you relieve stress and maintain or achieve normal body weight. Recent scientific studies also showed that being physically active has multiple positive effects on brain function, including improving one’s ability to think critically and resolve life’s challenges. Start your journey to a physically active lifestyle by making one simple change today and sticking to it.

  • Find a physical activity you enjoy: If you don’t like an activity, you won’t stick to it. Once you find an activity you enjoy, try to engage in it on a regular basis, even if it’s just for 10 minutes at a time. Then, gradually increase the duration to gain more health benefits. Should “life” get in the way, resume the activity as soon as you can and don’t look back at what you’ve lost. Focus on moving forward and reinitiating your fitness quest. Good advice! Find something you love to do! There are plenty of things to choose from!
  • If you’re a morning person, get up an hour early and walk, run, bicycle or hit the gym. It will energize you for the entire day. Studies have shown that morning exercisers have the highest success rate of sticking to a regular exercise routine. I am a morning person & love that once it is done, nothing later in the day can get in my way which often happens to us. BUT on the flip side, if you are not a morn person, forcing this can be worse & you end up hating it. Maybe you are an afternoon or eve person. Just find that time & COMMIT to it! DON'T make excuses!
  • Every step counts: Walk during lunch, before work or after work. Use the stairs, not the elevator; park further away from the mall and your health club. Look for every opportunity to move more throughout the day. This is an easy one & I do it!
  • Don’t fall into the excuse trap: I left my exercise clothes at home. I can’t find my running shoes. I’ve gained five pounds since I started exercising, so I may as well stop exercising completely. Don’t let these or other excuses trap you: Leave your workout clothes at work, in your car or at your entry door before you leave the house. Focus on the many benefits of exercise, not just weight loss.
    Enough said - stop making excuses!
  • Find an exercise partner: Whether it’s walking your dog every morning, meeting your significant other at the gym after work or meeting a friend for a morning run, having a workout partner can do wonders for accountability. I am not one to need this but many people do. If you are a person that needs someone to make you accountable, be honest with yourself & ask somebody to help you OR find a workout partner that meets your same needs.

Eat Healthier

If you’ve ever watched the popular television reality show “The Biggest Loser,” you know that a healthy diet and physical activity is a winning combo for weight loss success; and even more critical in trying to maintain it.

What the Hollywood producers don’t tell us, however, is that several contestants have ballooned back to their original weight or regained significant pounds months after leaving the show. That is because they no longer live in a controlled and supervised environment competing for “drastic and unrealistic” change. A true lifestyle change means slowly adapting to healthier behaviors in everyday living. Come back tomorrow. I have more to say on this in a separate post!

Follow these tips and you’ll be well on your way to healthier living:

  • Eliminate or significantly limit your consumption of sodas and other sugar-laden beverages: According to Calorie-counter.net one can (12 fl. oz) of Dr. Pepper, Coca-Cola or Pepsi Cola has 155 calories. You have to walk for 23 minutes to burn off one soda; or 45 minutes for drinking two a day. If you can’t live without soda, make it a weekly treat, not a habit. More people put on weight drinking sugary drinks & soda! Stop this for sure.
  • Eat more fruits and vegetables: The government recommends 2-4 servings of fruit and 3-5 servings of veggies a day. Most people don’t eat enough of both. Increase your daily intake with mindful eating: One piece of fruit for breakfast; a fresh salad (add a low-fat dressing) for lunch; and veggie snacks during the day. Substitute veggies and fruits for sugary treats and watch your cravings for sweets slowly diminish or disappear altogether.
  • Eat Less Refined Sugars/Sweets: Whether you’re a chocoholic, ice-cream lover or just plain crazy for sweets or unhealthy salty snacks, keeping these in moderation can be a tough balance. Who doesn’t love a sweet treat after lunch or dinner?  If you can't handle a sweet here or there at first, best to just not bring things in the house that tempt you too much. I have to go OUT for my special treats! I keep healthy treats in the house & portion control!

A contestant of the Biggest Loser show told ACE he had to control his love affair for multiple sweets by picking one favorite, and then, enjoy it in moderation. For some people, including me, not having treats at home or near your work space works best—as they say, out of sight, out of mind.

  • Eat Healthy Grains: According to government recommendations, most adults should eat between 3-6 oz. of grains, with at least ½ of that being whole grains. Check food labels for whole grain products, such as brown rice, oatmeal, whole-grain corn, bulgur and graham flour. Foods labeled with the words “multi-grain,” ‘stone-ground, “100 percent wheat,” “cracked wheat,” “seven-grain” and “bran” are often not whole-grain products.
  • Know Portion Sizes: Research has shown that Americans underestimate daily food consumption by as much as 25 percent, which contributes to the nation’s overweight and obesity crisis. I am so with the portion control! I know some don't do this but for me, I feel this is a huge point! Studies have proven that MOST people have no idea how much they are eating & when asked, they are way off on how many calories they are eating each day.. and it is not in a good way!

Here are some examples of a single serving size, according to the United States Dietary Association:

  • Vegetables or fruit is about the size of your fist.
  • Pasta should be equal to one scoop of ice cream
  • Meat, fish, or poultry should be the size of a deck of cards
  • Snacks, such as pretzels and chips, should be the size of a cupped handful
  • Apple the size of a baseball
  • Potato the size of a computer mouse
  • Bagel the size of a hockey puck
  • Pancake the size of a compact disc
  • Steamed rice the size of a cupcake wrapper
  • Cheese the size of a pair of dice or the size of your whole thumb

Calories In vs. Calories Out: If you love fast food, chocolate, ice cream, pizza, and Starbucks’ 890 calorie-Grande (2 percent milk) White Chocolate Mocha, be prepared to work out for hours to burn off these calories. You know my feeling on the calorie in/calorie out thing BUT this point is very valid!

Consider this: To burn off two slices of Papa John’s original crust “The Meats” pizza (700 calories), plus two Cheese sticks (520 calories) requires a 160-pound person to climb a ladder or stairs for two hours or to walk briskly for four long hours.

Tips for Developing Portion Control:

At home: Use smaller dishes and don’t go back for seconds. Never eat out of the bag or carton. I never eat out of the bag or carton. I portion out my serving size & the bag/container goes back!

In restaurants: Eyeball your appropriate portion. Avoid “all you can eat” places. Share your dessert and plan to take home leftovers. Stop eating when you’re full.

At the store: Don’t buy high-calorie food or snacks with little or no nutritional value. Make a grocery list and stick to the list while shopping.

Be patient. Start by making small changes. After you start eating healthier and become more physically active, you’ll feel more energized, less stressed and will love to hear those words:“Have you lost weight?” or “You look great.” It’s a secret to success worth sharing. How many times have I said the PATIENCE & CONSISTENCY words! Ya got to be patient!

So, what do ya think & anything to add?

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Gardening Fun

Sunday, March 7, 2010



An old Italian lived alone in New Jersey. He wanted to plant his annual tomato garden, but it was very difficult work, as the ground was hard. His only son, Vincent, who used to help him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and described his predicament:

Dear Vincent,

I am feeling pretty sad, because it looks like I won't be able to plant my tomato garden this year. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. I know if you were here my troubles would be over..? I know you would be happy to dig the plot for me, like in the old days.

Love, Papa

A few days later he received a letter from his son.

Dear Pop,

Don't dig up that garden.. That's where the bodies are buried.

Love, Vinnie

At 4 a.m. The next morning, FBI agents and local police arrived and dug up the entire area without finding any bodies.. They apologized to the old man and left. That same day the old man received another letter from his son.

Dear Pop,

Go ahead and plant the tomatoes now. That's the best I could do under the circumstances.

Love you,   Vinnie


Hope you all had a good laugh! Happy Sunday to you!

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Feel Good Stuff!

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Thx to my sis Bethe for passing this on to me. TOO CUTE!


UNTIL ONE HAS LOVED AN ANIMAL,
PART OF THEIR SOUL REMAINS UNWAKENED"  Unknown



 
Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Treadmill Challenge; Towel Giveaway Winner!

TGIF, Friday March 5, 2010



I think many of you realize by now that I do like my challenges! Yes, I do like challenges when it comes to fitness! So, when I was over at GirlGetStrong, I saw this unbelievable & amazing treadmill workout video! Now that is one friggin hard challenge! I don't see myself doing it that fast any time soon... but, I hate to say, I thought: Mmmmmmmmmmm, can a try a couple of these moves at a very slow pace just to try & challenge myself. Is that crazy or what!!!??? When you see the video, you will understand why I say that I may be crazy to try these even at a slower pace BUT some of it just calls to me! I will let you know if I get brave enough! Check out the video here or here. I MEAN IT... YOU HAVE TO SEE THIS TO BELIEVE IT!!!!
OK, who is with me to try a slow edition of a couple of these moves? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

NOW for the towel giveaway winners!!!! And again, thanks to all of those that voted & supported me!
You know, at first I was going to try to choose the winners based on the comments BUT they were all so good that I decided on random number generator! It made me feel great to hear how many of you out there love the weights but even more so was the why. So many of you said lifting weights & having muscles made you feel strong, like you could do & accomplish anything. I LOVED IT! I may do another one of these so not to worry if you did not win this time!

So, the winners are: Miz and AFG
Please email me your full name & address to I can send the towel out to you! My email is jody@truth2beingfit.com

HAPPY WEEKEND TO YOU ALL! I will be posting this weekend with just fun stuff but a peek at next week:
 
Dr. J will be in the house again!!!!

Some cool exercise help to pass on to you that I picked up here & there.

An update on the bridal shower. Crap, I have to find a dress! Don't worry Jen! I will find one & will not embarrass you!

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Joy, Laughter, Fun - Good for You & Your Health!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Dance your heart out!

"We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams." ~ Anonymous

Megan over at It's All About Joy wrote this great post below about spreading laughter & joy. We all know that laughter does the body good! It is good for our health! In addition, I have been wanting to post about The Levity Project which she mentions at the bottom of her post. Lance, over at The Jungle of Life, also is part of the Levity Project. In fact, I got that picture & poem from his site so check out his write up about The Levity Project here.

Megan's idea about spreading joy & fun is cool! I know that in terms of fitness, I always try to comment to people that I have noticed their weight loss or firming up, even if I only have seen them in the gym but not talked to them. Not only does it make them feel good but I think it helps spur them on with this life long journey to health & fitness. Even just telling a person their hair looks great or their smile or laugh lifted you are great ways to spread the joy without the money if you don't have it.

Please enjoy Megan's post below & DO CHECK OUT LANCE'S POST TOO!

SURPRISE! Spread Joy, Have Fun

Surprise1 A friend of mine started a revolution in my heart. You see, twice now, she’s surprised me with little packages in the mail and my resulting joy, after I excitedly opened them, was magnificent! As I opened the second package, I actually said aloud, “Wow, she’s so much fun!”

Here’s the thing: the stuff she sends comes straight from her heart. What's more, she enjoys surprising people so much that she’s made it a habit.

Noticing the joy I felt because of her actions, I decided to make it a habit, too. On my calendar now is a weekly reminder to surprise someone with joy. While there are many ways to do that - some free, some not - I've included a handful of ways below that I've been privy to lately.

Ways To Joyfully Surprise Someone

  • Send a thoughtful trinket to someone to make them smile.
CHECK THIS OUT: A friend surprised me with a pretty Lia Sophia necklace in the mail earlier this week that included the note, "Simple yet versatile & always in fashion ~ just like you." Isn't that great?!
  • After finishing a great book, send it on to someone you think would enjoy it, telling them the book is theirs to keep or continue passing along.
  • Call a friend, family member, or coworker's voice mail and leave them a fun message.
UP THE ANTE: Better yet, if you enjoy singing and can carry a tune, sing your message!
  • Send a handwritten note to someone who needs encouragement.

CHECK THIS OUT: You don’t even have to know the person. A friend recently asked a handful of us to reach out to someone she knows who is going through a rough time. Simple to do, and yet so very gratifying.

Along those lines, Cards4Cancer is an organization dedicated to doing the same thing for children and adults battling cancer. Please visit their web site by clicking here to see how you can help --- simply by sending a card!

  • Comment on a new blog.
  • Have a bouquet of flowers sent to someone (anyone!) anonymously.
  • Make a mixed CD of your favorite songs, and send it to a friend.
  • If you know someone who loves a particular person, place or thing, surprise them with it.

CHECK THIS OUT: When Tess at The Bold Life found out I liked Reverend Michael Beckwith, she sent me a dozen of his sermons on CD! She also included a beautiful card, and a copy of her book Flying By The Seat of My Soul, which I’d wanted a copy of, but never asked her for. (So awesome ~ thank you, Tess!) 

ANOTHER GOOD ONE: The guy I love surprised me on Valentine's Day with a dozen roses, chocolates, and a writing table I'd been eying (I'm a sucker for functional gifts!). On top of that, he wrote me the sweetest notes (not just one!) letting me know how he feels about me. BLISS!

OH NO HE DIDN'T! : I know a very special guy who surprised the woman he loves by offering to fly her friend across the country so they could spend a fun weekend together. How awesome is that?!

Results of Spreading Joyful Surprises:

The coolest thing about surprising people in joyful ways is that when we do so, our own levels of happiness increase as a result. What’s more, we begin a ripple effect of joyous energy that reaches far and wide, positively affecting thousands of others.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on some additional ways to joyfully surprise someone. In the meantime, have a truly beautiful day!


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Speaking of joy, Katie at The Levity Project is all about spreading joy and laughter one micro-movement at a time, and she wants YOU to take part!

Her latest micro-movement involves car dancing, and as Lance at The Jungle of Life said, “I cannot car dance and be grumpy at the same time…!”

So if you’ve ever been in your car and felt the beat of a great song, don’t just sit there --- CAR DANCE! And find a way to tape it. There’s a good chance you’ll be featured as part of this movement, which I have a feeling won’t be “micro” as much as it will be MASSIVE!

Please check out Katie’s infectious energy and more details on her latest micro-movement by clicking here


Spread your thoughts about Megan's and Lance's posts & any thoughts you have about spreading joy & fun!
 
PS: Yes, I am guilty of doing some car dancing.. my hubby can verify that!

PPS: Thx to all of you again for your amazing comments on why you love to lift weights! For those that have not entered the towel giveaway, you have until TONIGHT, 6pm PST, 9pm EST.

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Calories In, Calories Out - What is the Truth?

Wednesday, March 3, 2010




I think we have all heard the statement, CALORIES IN, CALORIES OUT. You hear it over & over again on TV, from fitness experts & in books - "It is all about calories in and calories out". While this makes sense to a certain point, I have always said FOR ME, it is not only this but the actual foods I eat. I have found along the way that I can eat more calories if my foods are mostly of the "healthier & whole food kinds". When I used to eat differently & it was more foods that were not as "whole foods" & also some of those low/non fat goodies, my body did look near as good as now. So for me, although I do pay attention to calories, I still think that it is NOT all about calories but a mixture of that PLUS the types of food you eat. I honestly feel that if you eat healthier whole foods rather than the packaged, frozen, mini pack goodies & such, you can eat more calories & look better too.

I came upon an article that actually spoke to this in a straight forward way. They made the comparison of a donut at 250 calories, 18g of carbs, 2g of protein and 20g of fat. Then you have a roasted chicken breast with skin coming in at 251 calories, 2g of carbs, 37g of protein and 10.8g of fat. The article spoke to although the calories were almost the same, the "thermic effect" was NOT.

The donut will have a much smaller thermic effect. As we all know, the after effect of foods like donuts make us hungrier & can change our brain chemistry to actually want to eat more. It effects our insulin & blood sugar which leads to fat storage. We get those spikes in blood sugar & then that crash.. OH NO! I think we have all been there, done that!

The chicken breast, per this article, leads to a larger response from glucagon which signals fat usage. Protein will keep us full longer & provide energy & actually help our thought process more. Have any of you compared having a sugary breakfast vs. let's say an egg & whole grain toast with PB. The egg/toast meal will sustain you longer, you will feel better & be more alert & will feel full longer.

The article pointed out that based on the thermic effect, the donut supplies 247 calories & the chicken breast 239 calories. You might be saying, heck, that is only 8 calories. BUT, think in terms of this over & over again with food multiplied by what your brain chemistry is doing & telling you in terms of eating more of the junk food, the less energy, the crashing after the sugar, more fat storage vs. less fat usage. THIS IS WHAT I SAW ON MY BODY WAY BACK WHEN I WAS NOT EATING AS CLEAN AS I AM NOW! I ate less calories but did not look as lean even with my weight lifting.

As the article points out, the quality of the calories DO make a difference & also the "metabolic consequence" of the food you are eating. Some may not agree but I have found for me, a calorie is not always a calorie.

What are your thoughts on calories in vs. calories out? Have you seen direct results in your body based on the types of foods you put in it? Have you noticed that when you eat pretty clean, you can eat more calories & look better & leaner? Love to hear your take on this!

PS: Thx to all of you for your amazing comments on why you love to lift weights! For those that have not entered the towel giveaway, you have until Thursday, 6pm PST, 9pm EST.

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Workout Towel GIVEAWAY!!!!!!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

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Hi everyone! Remember when I asked you to vote for my towel saying? Remember when I told you I won? Here is the towel!!!! Well, the birds are not part of the towel. I got this picture off the Inperspire site since they have a better picture. Here is what they had to say:

What do the bluebirds of happiness have to do with fitness?  The bluebirds represent how we feel about our newest towel...we're just plain happy!  A while back Girl Get Strong (a women's health and fitness magazine/website focused on fitness, fashion, and fun) ran an Inperspire Contest Giveaway.  They asked their members to think about what motivational mantra they would want on their towel.  We had some really great entries, but in the end we had to choose one...and the winner was Jody!  To Be Is To Lift - To Lift Is To Be  - and we made it into our next towel design.  Congratulations, Jody.  I am sure the towel will inspire many people - like you do.

So, I am so excited that Inperspire put my towel on their site. You can click on my saying above to see it. You can also check out their other towels like the I AM WORTH IT towel I won not too long ago.

Inperspire sent me extra towels so I am doing a GIVEAWAY!!! Two (2) readers can win one of these To Be Is To Lift - To Lift Is To Be towels! This is for U.S./Canada readers.

Here is what you can do to enter:


1. Just comment about what you love about resistance training/lifting weights.
2. For an extra entry, write about this giveaway on your site (if you have one), link back here and then come back here & do a separate comment that you linked to this giveaway.
3. Tweet it out if you want to even though I am not on Twitter. I know, I am way behind! Leave a separate comment.

I will leave this open through Thursday, 6pm PST/9 EST. The winner will be announced Friday.

Let me tell you about towels. I live by them!!! I have always brought a large towel AND a smaller towel (now my own Inperspire towel) to the gym. The larger towel (like you use after you shower) is for the benches/machines/on top of mats(since other people lie on those mats). I make sure that the side of the towel with the tag on it touches the bench etc. The side without the tag touches my body. THEN, the smaller towel is for my face only! My face breaks out easily so I want to make sure & have a separate towel just for my face. My Inperspire towel is now that towel, although it is a decent size towel. I just like to cover the whole bench.. that is me!

GOOD LUCK!

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Exercise, Make It Your OWN!

Monday March 1, 2010



When I think about exercise & all the rules out there, to me, it is all about reading the information, digesting it & then making it my own. It is not that I don't think I can learn from others because you all know I do. I have shared more articles from magazines & more stories from other sites than I care to count! I am not afraid to say I do NOT know it all & I know I can learn from others. That is what this is all about!

The one thing I do feel strongly about though is good form! I have not had a major injury in all the years I have been working out - knock on wood - my head! I credit that to really paying attention to my form. I am not saying I am perfect because I have given a bit in the last couple reps of a heavy weight set when I wad trying to build BUT nothing crazy & 99.8% of the time, I keep that form good!

So saying all this, you are probably muttering to yourself, get to the point Jody! OK, I will! What I am saying is that even though a picture shows that you should do a move a certain way or maybe a friend shows you something, it does not mean you can't tweak it a bit. I base all my exercises on how it feels to me as I am doing it. I use that mind/muscle link at all times. SO, don't talk to me while I am doing a set! My form is good but I may move my arm or body or leg a bit to make sure I feel that move just the way I want to feel it. Sometimes I do a couple reps one way & then tweak it a bit for another couple reps to see which way feels best.

Same with cardio. I make up my own version of intervals (not HIIT) based on how I am feeling each day & this changes from workout to workout cause I may feel better one day than another. As we all know, ya can't do HIIT every day or you would crash & burn & probably get injured as well. BUT, I have learned to push myself based on how my body feels for that day without actually doing HIIT (which I do as well on a separate day). I call these my Jody interval days because they really push me out of the comfort zone but it is not steady state & it is not HIIT.

So, as you continue on this journey to get fit & healthy, listen to you! Play with the way you do your exercise a bit & see if a little tweak here or there might make it work better for you. For me, this is so AND honestly, I even change it over time as my body adjusts & tells me too. Also, if you use cables, change up those attachments. That is why they are all there.. they do feel different & work you different!

Make it your own & have fun!!!!!

Do you "make it your own" when you work out? What things do you do to personalize your workout? Do you trust yourself & your body enough to listen to it? I know this takes time so be patient. As you do it more, you will be able to feel the difference & you will be able to "listen" & respond to what your body is saying to you.

PS: Cammy over at The Tippy Toe Diet talked to a few of us about "our measure of success" HERE. Check it out!

PPS: My jog was spectacular! Beautiful sunrise & snow capped mountains! I have not gone to the bridal shower as I write this so can't tell you about that yet!

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What I am Doing Today

Sunday, February 28, 2010


















As many of you know, I do my outside jog on Sunday morn. I am writing this before the jog but I am sure it was a good one! It is supposed to rain Friday night into Saturday so that usually leaves CA with cleaner air, blue skies & snow capped mountains. Looking forward to that!

BUT, I am also going to my youngest stepdaughter's bridal shower. I wrote a post about her engagement here. That is the cute couple in the pic above! Her oldest sister is in town too for the shower! The wedding is 4 weeks away!!!! Holy cow! My hubby, her Dad, his last daughter getting married! My Dad used to joke about this in my family with 3 girls. He would say to the husband to be: "You can't give her back"!!! Of course he was only kidding but we always got a laugh out of it!

Anyway, once the wedding happens, I will try to post some pics. It is going to be fun! They even made up their own wedding invitations all about how they met. Very creative!

OK, have a great day & hope you are having fun!

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LIVESTRONG Wants Healthcare Reform

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Healthcare Sunday moved to Saturday today. I received this Thursday & wanted to share with all of you. LIVESTRONG "just joined forces with the American Cancer Society and others to push a national call to action urging members of both parties to “come together quickly to pass a meaningful (health care reform) bill that improves access to insurance coverage and lowers the costs of care.”

Can you join the fight? Please sign the petition!!!!!! Thank you!



LIVESTRONG Action

America to Washington: "Get To Work"

Dear Jody ,

Bob Brace
 

Join LIVESTRONG Leader Bob B. from Michigan.
Tell Congress to forget politics and act now on
health care reform.

 

Today, our elected leaders in Washington are gathering to continue their debate on overhauling a health care system that fails far too many Americans.

We’re hopeful they do the work we elected them to do: break through the gridlock, work together and leave the partisan posturing at the door.

If we act quickly, we can take advantage of the national attention on health care to send a clear message to our officials. We just joined forces with the American Cancer Society and others to push a national call to action urging members of both parties to “come together quickly to pass a meaningful (health care reform) bill that improves access to insurance coverage and lowers the costs of care.”

We need 50,000 people to sign the call so that we can send a strong message to Congress. Will you help by adding your name and also asking your friends and family to do the same?

It only takes a moment and couldn’t be more urgent:

www.healthcarepetition.org/75200_laf

Americans are tired of the political theater. We expect real progress and real reform from our leaders. The LIVESTRONG mission is to advocate for meaningful policies that support cancer survivors. Join us in sending a message to Washington they can't ignore.

We need to pull together in this moment. Our voices were heard on both sides of the aisle last fall, but the shifting political landscape has made real reform more elusive than ever. But if we come together—in great numbers—we’ll be impossible to ignore.

Can you please take a moment to add your name to the national health care call to action? Your voice could make a huge difference.

www.healthcarepetition.org/75200_laf

LIVESTRONG,

Doug Ulman, President and CEO, and the LIVESTRONG Action Team

P.S. If you’re interested in viewing the summit today—tune into LIVESTRONGblog.org—we’ll be streaming coverage and you can join the conversation with others in our community concerned about health care.


As always, I encourage comments. Let's get this done! For those that do not live in California, there are hearings going on about why WellPoint/Blue Cross Anthem are raising the insurance rates to families as high as 39%! There are also many other states where insurance companies are trying to raise rates. Read my post from last Sunday. Don't think that just because you have insurance now, that you are safe. Many people are coming out to say they had to drop their insurance because the rates went up so high that they could not afford them... like they could before!
 
Please sign the petition and/or contact your representatives in Washington!

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Dieting & Life Help - Are you Whole or Hole

TGIF Friday, February 26, 2010



Jules over at Big Girl Bombshell gave me The Strong Bombshell award Wednesday. Jules received the beautiful blogger award & decided to make it her own & pass out bombshell awards to certain bloggers. What a cute idea! Check it out! Part of this award is to pass it on to other bloggers. Yes, you all know me too well. I love you all so I just pass it back to all those great blogs out there that I am "addicted" to! I am also supposed to offer up 7 random things about myself:

1. I would love to have a house in Hawaii - the Big Island
2. I sure would love to be a fitness model - heck, many of us would love to be a fitness model!
3. I have been called both a witch & a princess by young girls out & about. I guess it depends on which hormones are at work! One little girl thought I was Pocahontas when my hair was longer.
4. I am actually very shy but nobody ever believes that!
5. If I am tired enough, I can fall sleep while I am talking to somebody. Yes, I have done this!
6. I honestly can't believe that my husband puts up with me. I am HARD to live with!
7. I wish things were different. I choose not to explain this one but it is so....

So, since I was talking about Jules, I wanted to share something with you from her site. I read this post from Jules the other day & knew I had to not only share it but the poem in it.

Jules had this to say about the poem below
:

I remember, years ago, reading a poem A Hole in the Sidewalk.  It is a powerful, short poem that can resonate with many things in our lives, but in particular, dieting efforts.  A hole that I keep falling into.  One that I can see, but continue to fall into and then struggle to climb out again. Now, take the same word and add a W.  Just as simple as that.  Add a W and it becomes WHOLE.  Puts a new meaning on the word.  Sounds the same but gives it a different meaning.  When you get to that place that you feel lost and have dug yourself into a hole that seems such a monumental task to get out of, do just one little thing.  A tiny, tiny effort.  Add the W and look at the WHOLE differently! Here is the poem:

AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN FIVE SHORT CHAPTERS

by Portia Nelson

I

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk
I fall in.
I am lost ... I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes me forever to find a way out.

II

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place
but, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

III

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in ... it's a habit.
my eyes are open
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

IV

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

V

I walk down another street.

This poem really is amazing & says so much! Tell me what is says to you. Does it sound like parts of your life? I know it does mine. I am looking to walk down another street. Lots of learning still to be done!

By the way, Jules had
this post up yesterday. If you want to vote for her writing, check it out.

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Gym Tough Love Advice & Some Ranting :-)

Thursday, February 25, 2010


My weight room does NOT look like this!

This past Monday as I hit the gym, I encountered one of the things the makes me the angriest.... people that do not put away their weights after using them!!!! Listen, I go in at a very slow time so there is plenty of time for the gym personnel to either get up & tell the members to put their weights back OR pick them up for us! It took me close to 15 minutes of my time to find weights, barbells & other pieces of equipment that I needed for my workout! VERY VERY VERY frustrating to start out this way.

You see, with a plan in mind when I hit the gym, I like to have all the things I am going to need in my eyesight so it does not wreck my circuit type training. In fact, as I worked to put away some of the weights in the right place (and not only the ones I use but others too), a couple younger members (guys in their 20's) continued to pick up stuff, use it & drop it right where they finished OR put weight plates on the machines & not re-rack them! All this watching me clean up! Now, saying that, it is not just men because I found the lighter weights that mostly women use all over the gym as well! Even after 25 years, this still bugs me!

Things not to do in the gym for those new to it or for those that just want to bit*h with me!

1. Again, put your weights back AND take the weight plates off the machine after you are finished!

2. DO NOT stand in front of me & block the mirror while I am lifting. NO, I am not checking myself out or fixing my hair (which is bed head hair anyway). I am making sure my form is correct!

3. DO NOT talk to me while I am doing a set. That is a sure way to get a person injured! I need to focus & concentrate. In fact, if you see me moving non stop with no rest, please just ask if you can catch me at a good time. Many times I will stop to answer a quick question. If it is a longer answer, I will ask if I can get back to you when I finish my workout.

4. Don't text or cell phone talk while you are doing cardio. If you can do that, you sure ain't working hard enough! I saw a gal on the elliptical the other day that slowed down so many times in the 20 minutes she was on it to text that I doubt she got even 5 minutes of decent cardio in. AND if you do this, DO NOT complain & ask why you are not losing weight!!!!

5. PLEASE wipe off the bench or machine you are working on! Many people just bring in this tiny towel to use on their face but do not wipe down anything! I bring a larger towel for the bench/machines & a smaller one just for my face.

6. Don't sing to your iPod so loud that others around you can't hear what they are listening to... and that is pretty hard to do when we have ear buds in our own ears... you know they are loud if you can hear them!

7. When you do crunches, it is not a whiplash exercise! Don't pull your neck up & down. It is about a fluid movement & feel it in the abdominals (mind/muscle link) NOT a whiplash neck exercise. Also, if you get on those ab benches that have handles that let you pull yourself up, it is about resting into the bench & using your abs. The handles are NOT for pulling you up. You are supposed to be working your abs, right???

OK, I could go on & on but I thought I would leave some out for you readers to join in. What are some of the gym DON'TS that bother you & what do you do if anything to correct it? I will tell you that if I see a person walk away from a machine & not pull the weight plates off it, I ask him/her to do so because I will be using it next. Again, I also explain to people nicely that want to ask a question of me that I am a non stop workout type person. If it is a complicated question, I request that I answer it at the end of my workout. AND, I do NOT sing out loud. That would scare just about everyone away! Hmmmmmmmmmm, maybe I should start singing!

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Eating Strategies; National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

 Wednesday, February 24, 2010



Many of the bloggers out there talk about their addiction to food. They know that if they start eating the wrong foods again, it will not turn out pretty. They acknowledge their addiction to food & some even decide not to do any "treats" because they feel they have not come far enough to overcome that addiction yet. They stick to a very controlled food plan for them. Some of us can do the treats & still be fine. ME!! We all have to be true to ourselves & know what is right for us.

Dr. Oz had an ambush eating show on Monday & the previous link is part one. Here is part two. He ambushed a group of people by "setting them up" with a buffet full of foods from the good to the bad choices. It was a very interesting experiment! Once the people knew it was a Dr. Oz deal, some even hid the food in napkins, blamed the food in front of them on other people bringing it to them and/or saying they got it for their friend or husband/wife. LOTS OF EXCUSES!!!

One lady said that she didn't think anything was wrong with it & it was like being at a birthday party.. She said: "Who would turn down a piece of cake at a birthday party?" Ah, me!!!! I don't eat just because it is there. If we ate at every bday party we went to.. well, you know the answer to that! I have written a lot about this
eating at every special occasion under the sun!!!

Another said "it was only one french fry... hmmm, we know that 1 FF turns into 5 plus a bunch of other stuff! All those little nibbles add up and I have posted about that too! You can't just not count the nibbles during the day!!!

So, Dr. Oz gave out some statistics after one lady said she was just out with friends having a good time & they are pretty sobering!!!!

1.
Going out with 1 or two friends - you will eat 35% more food.

2. Go out with 7 or more people - you will double the amount of food you normally eat. If you go out, say 3 times per week with a group of friends, you can eat 72,000 extra calories per year - which adds up to 20 pounds in a year!

Some advice for these big group functions - be the last one to go up to the buffet for food & EAT SLOWLY. I have posted about this too. Mindful eating. Plus as we all know, it takes 20 minutes for the stomach to register fullness, so SLOW DOWN! You will also enjoy the actual taste of the food if you slow down. How many of you eat something so fast & can't even remember how good it tasted cause you scarfed it down?
 You can check out this post by Dr. Oz on how to stop emotional eating.
 
Now I am not saying we have to be perfect cause we don't want to contribute to eating disorders... but we do have to be aware & truthful with ourselves. So saying that, please check out the info below:

I thought I would also let you know about
NEDAawareness. February 21-27 is National Eating Disorder Awareness week (NEDA) supported by the National Eating Disorder Association. I found this out on Alyson's site.  Here is a little more info from their website & I got it from Alyson's site.  

The mission of NEDAwareness Week

Our aim of NEDAwareness Week is to ultimately prevent eating disorders and body image issues while reducing the stigma surrounding eating disorders and improving access to treatment. Eating disorders are serious, life-threatening illnesses — not choices — and it’s important to recognize the pressures, attitudes and behaviors that shape the disorder.

What is NEDAwareness Week?

NEDAwareness Week is a collective effort of primarily volunteers, eating disorder professionals, health care providers, educators, social workers, and individuals committed to raising awareness of the dangers surrounding eating disorders and the need for early intervention and treatment.

How NEDAwareness Week Works

This year, NEDA is calling for everyone to do just one thing to help raise awareness and provide accurate information about eating disorders.  NEDAwareness Week participants can choose from a huge range of ways to contribute: Distribute info pamphlets and put up posters, write one letter for Media Watchdogs, register as a Volunteer Speaker or host a Volunteer Speaker, coordinate a NEDA Walk, or arrange interactive and educational activities such as panel discussions, fashion shows, body fairs, movie screenings, art exhibits and more. As an official NEDAwareness Week participant you can be involved in any way that works with your schedule, resources, community, and interests. These events and activities attract public media attention – on local, national and international levels.


Your thoughts on group eating. Do you tend to eat more when you go out with others? Are you able to control yourself at buffets? What are your strategies for surviving group eating and emotional eating?

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Diet & Dieting - Dr. J Guest Posts!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010


“Dr. J”Dr. J offers his irreverent, slightly irrelevant, but possibly useful opinions on health and fitness. A Florida surgeon and fitness freak with a black belt in karate, he runs 50 miles a week and flies a Cherokee Arrow 200.

Many of you already know of Dr. J. He writes over at Calorielab here. Have you noticed that his column has not updated in a bit? If you are a fan like me, the answer is a resounding YES! I miss Dr. J!!! Well, apparently the editor position at Calorielab is in the process of being filled. That is why a few of the writers like Dr. J do not have their posts up & will not until the position is filled. The editor's job is to set up the posts for the site & since that job is limbo right now, Dr. J has not had a post at Calorielab in a while. He still does not know when it will be running as before.

So, I am thrilled to have Dr. J here as a guest post! His writings below add on right to my Tough Love post! This losing weight & getting fit is hard work & anyone that tells you differently is full of you know what! Go Dr. J!!!

Diets and Dieting:

I think one of the reasons that diets are so hard to succeed at is the expectations they set up for you before you begin the diet. Let’s look at some of the promises that diets frequently make.

Most diets promise many of the same things:

1) Lose weight fast

2) Burn fat fast

3) Never be hungry

4) Eat the foods you love

5)Eat anything you want

6) Results last forever

7) Reshapes your body

8) Easy to follow

9 )Increase your energy

10) Guaranteed success

So, from what I see, we have a lot of “fast” and “easy” with a sprinkling of no hunger, energy and guaranteed results. No wonder they almost always fail! No wonder we can’t do it! Preparation for what is
coming is vital to being successful at any endeavor.

With that in mind we have the Dr. J Very Hard Diet!

Before I give my list of promises, I want you to be in a prepared state of mind. Focus on this. The Dr. J Very Hard Diet is, in a word or two, Very Hard!

OK, here are the promises:

1) You will lose weight sloooooooooow!

2) You will burn fat slooooooooooooow!

3) You will often be hungry, but hungry is OK.

4) You cannot eat all the foods you love, and if you do, you can't eat
very much of them.

5) You definitely cannot eat anything you want. No way, shape or form!

6) It WILL last forever, but that will require you transition from The Dr. J Very Hard Diet to The Dr. J Very Hard Maintenance Diet.

7) Reshaping your body will happen. Hopefully round is not the end shape result.

8) Not easy, no no no!

9) You are in a negative calorie balance with a diet so some fatigue must be expected.

10) Absolutely, positively, guaranteed success!

So what we have here is plenty of hard and slow! Sorry about that. Please remember, however, that the good old fast and easy does not work! The one and only good thing about the Dr. J Very Hard Diet is
that it works. That’s it.

What is the D. J VHD? Basically the same diet you have failed on before. You failed because you couldn’t stick to the diet. Why? Because the diet wasn’t easy, or fast like it promised, so you gave up. With the Dr. J plan, you know in advance that it will range from hard to Very Hard, and you will be prepared for what you are undertaking, and therefore quite possibly you will have the discipline to be successful!

Just to be as helpful with your diet as I can, however, here are the:

Dr. J’s rules for healthy eating

1) If it tastes good, it’s bad for you!

2) If your mother told you to eat it, it’s good for you.

3) If you didn’t want to listen to your mother…it’s VERY good for you!

4) If you listened to your mother, GOOD for YOU!

5) If it comes in a box or wrapper, it’s bad for you.

6) If you can’t pronounce its ingredients, it’s bad for you.

7) If it only has one ingredient, it’s good for you.

8) If it floats in water, and it’s an apple, it’s good for you.

9) If it floats in water, and it’s an egg, it’s bad for you.

10) If you have any water left, drink it.

OK, what are your thoughts on the Dr. J plan? Now, some points you may say "hey, that is not true" like when Dr. J says "if it tastes good, it's bad for you". Well, for me, I really like the taste of the food I eat BUT prior to my change to my healthy lifestyle, I would have probably agreed with Dr. J.

See, with time, your body & taste buds will change to this new way of eating & being fit. You will end up liking all these great healthy foods but it may take time.. SO BE PATIENT! Consistency & patience are your best friends!

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Addictions - Good, Bad & In-Between

Monday, February 22, 2010


Picture from here.


There are all kinds of addictions. Many of us know about food addictions but there are drug addictions, alcohol addictions and plenty more. Some can be good for us if handled in the right way but many can be bad for us if taken to extreme like alcohol & that dreaded food!!! We need to find some kind of healthy balance for the food one for sure. Eliminating whole food groups (well, unless you are allergic) or always denying ourselves many times does not work. The in-between might be the better approach for most.

Many of us have read stories about the addiction to social media - Twitter, Facebook, email, texting, YouTube and more! The media say that the younger generation does not even know how to converse face to face anymore. I don't know if that is true BUT I can see how it happens. People rather text or email than call. Why meet with friends when you can chat via the internet. It is becoming an obsession & addiction.

How about blog addictions??? My husband says I am addicted to the blogging. I bet many of you out there ask yourself that same question each & every day. Sometimes I get on here to do some posting work & of course I want to read all the great blogs out there. Something to learn from each & every one of you. BUT, than I want to comment too! So, by the time I read, digest the message & comment on LOTS of blogs... well, hours have gone by & I say, "where has the day gone?". Many times I do all this reading/commenting before I get my own posts done or even the things I want to do for myself in terms of goals. It is like a catch 22 for me... I can't get off the merry-go-round at times. I think I am going to have to re-evaluate my computer time & my blog reading/commenting time in order to fulfill my own goals. I am sure many of you have thought the same thing. Some of you have even decided to blog less. This is hard for me but I do intend to do something about this soon or I will end up too old to do some of the things I still want to do! No, I am not going anywhere now but trying to figure it out.

QUESTION: Are you addicted to blogging? Do you spend too much time with social media and/or the blog world? Do you not do things for yourself & instead read way too many blogs (even though they are all great)? Do you not get housework done like me??? Oh, heck, I was not good at that even before I started blogging but even worse now!

OK, I really need your help on this & just wondering if you are like me or am I just slow as molasses & that is why it takes me so long to read & comment? HELP!!!!!!

The one addiction I am not sorry for is my workouts. YES, everyone says I am addicted and yes, I am. I admit it, I don't care that I am, I love the workouts & I love what they do for me. I am not going to apologize for them, I am not going to stop and I am not going to change what I think is right for me in terms of my workouts. So there!!!!
 
Anyone else out there addicted to something or exercise like me? I know some of my readers are exercise freaks like me so admit it!!! What is your addiction & how do you intend to make it less so, if you even want to? Any help for me on slowing down on the blog stuff? Don't some of you feel you will lose readers if you slow down on the blogging?

NEWS! For those of you missing Dr. J over at Calorielab, he will be guest posting here tomorrow!!! Stop by!

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Healthcare Sunday

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Senate Bill by Christmas but No Health Care Reform in 2009


Anthem Rate Hikes Just Tip Of Iceberg - Premiums Going Way Up In Six More States


Health and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius today will release a new report showing more dramatic health insurance premium increases are proposed in Connecticut, Maine, Michigan, Oregon, Rhode Island and Washington.

Keying off the Obama administration's recent probe into a planned 39 percent rate hike from Anthem Blue Cross in California, Sebelius will detail large increases in six other states and say that given record insurer profits, health care reform has never been more urgent.

At 11:30 a.m. today, Sebelius will release the report, obtained by TPMDC and titled "Insurance Companies Prosper, Families Suffer: Our Broken Health Insurance System."

It finds that Anthem's rate increase (now delayed until May) is "not unique" and that experts say premiums will keep rising.

The report quotes National Association of Insurance Commissioners officials predicting the nation will "see rate increases of 20, 25, 30 percent."

"These massive increases are disturbing examples of the problems that make reforming our health insurance system more important than ever," the report states.

Among its specific findings:

Anthem of Connecticut requested an increase of 24 percent last year, which was rejected by the state.

Anthem in Maine had an 18.5-percent premium increase rejected by the state last year as being "excessive and unfairly discriminatory" - but is now requesting a 23-percent increase this year.

In 2009, Blue Cross/Blue Shield of Michigan requested approval for premium increases of 56 percent for plans sold on the individual market.

Regency Blue Cross Blue Shield of Oregon requested a 20-percent premium increase.
UnitedHealth, Tufts, and Blue Cross requested 13- to 16-percent rate increases in Rhode Island.

And rates for some individual health plans in Washington increased by up to 40 percent until Washington State imposed stiffer premium regulations.

The report finds that "[w]hile rising health care costs is a known problem with our broken health care system, some of the premium increases requested by insurance companies are 5 to 10 times larger than the growth rate in national health expenditures."

It also seizes on an issue the administration has been pushing in recent weeks, saying that while prices went up, so did profits and CEO pay.

"[P]rofits for the ten largest insurance companies increased 250 percent between 2000 and 2009, ten times faster than inflation," the report finds.

More from the report:

Last year, as working families struggled with rising health care costs and a recession, the five largest health insurance companies - WellPoint, UnitedHealth Group, Cigna, Aetna, and Humana - took in combined profits of $12.2 billion, up 56 percent over 2008.

These health insurance companies' profits grew even as nominal GDP decreased by 1 percent over this same time period.

And recent data show that the CEOs of America's five largest insurers were each compensated up to $24 million in 2008.

The report lays out the case for reform and specifically how the bills passed by the House and Senate would demand transparency from insurers so they would need to account for administrative costs and profits as well as justify premium increases.

The Anthem hikes also have allowed Democrats and the administration to start up again with the drumbeat for a plan that includes competition.

Members of House Democratic leadership used Anthem as an example yesterday of why health care reform legislation must be completed.

"The situation in California is Exhibit A that we can expect more of the same if we do nothing," said Rep. Chris Van Hollen (D-MD). "There is no sign of things getting any better."

Rep. Loretta Sanchez (D-CA) said since the news broke about Anthem's proposed 39 percent increases, her constituents approach her daily in Orange County and they tell her to "get this done."

President Obama and White House Press Secretary Robert Gibbs also have cited the increases when talking about the plans to finalize health care legislation at the health care summit next week.

The Energy and Commerce Committee plans hearings for next week and has asked Anthem parent company WellPoint's CEO Angela Braly to testify.

Meanwhile, health care reform activists in New York are planning a march across the Brooklyn Bridge Saturday that would culminate in a rally outside of Anthem's headquarters at Broadway and Liberty streets.

"Americans across the country are uniting to send a message to Washington: forget the special interests and get the job done," the group wrote in a planning email.


As I said last week, for those fighting healthcare reform, tell me that your rates are not going to go up OR that if you lose your job, you will  not have trouble finding affordable converge for ALL your needs OR that if you became a liability, the insurance companies would not find a way to drop you. For our House & Senate representatives that are not fighting for the best plan or for those opposing it (I am talking to Republicans AND Democrats), give up that great healthcare plan of yours & go try to buy it on the open market & then come back & talk to me!

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Saturday Funny; Cooking with Wine

Saturday, February 20, 2009

Temecula Wine Tours in Limo Bus - Top Dog Limo Buses and Limousines - Temecula Wine Tou Temecula Valley Wineriesr




I always cook with wine. Sometimes I even add it to the food.
 
- W.C. Fields






That is it for today.... ENJOY! I am not a wine person but had to share!

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Make Your Dreams a Reality

TGIF Friday, February 19, 2010

Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop to look around once in a while you could miss it.
 
- Matthew Broderick as Ferris Buller, "Ferris Buller's Day Off"


I loved that movie!!!!!!!!! I need some time away from the computer so I am sharing this absolutely wonderful post from Lance over at The Jungle of Life. It is all about giving your dreams wings! I guess that means stopping to look around which I am doing today. I hope you enjoy the post as much as I did when I read it for the first time & each time after that. And just for future reference, I love sharing other people's posts if they speak to me so I have been doing that & will continue in the future. Not all of us get to the many wonderful blogs out there so I always want to share things that touch me. If you have read them already, please enjoy again.

The Torii and The Sun


“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” ~ Mark Twain

“If one advances confidently in the direction of one’s dreams, and endeavors to live the life which one has imagined, one will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

“It’s the wrong time.”

“It costs too much.”

“There’s another commitment I have.”

“I’ll do it when I retire.”

Have you ever said a statement like this to yourself before?  A statement to give yourself permission to put off doing something?

Goals.  Dreams. Aspirations.  They live in you.  They live in me.

Still…have you ever let those dreams, those big audacious goals slip?

I have.  Maybe you have, too.

I started to think about this recently.

“It’s too cold outside today.”

A cold Wisconsin day, although warmer than we’d had in weeks.  Twenty degrees (Fahrenheit) outside.  Supposed to have been nearly twice that. Should I go outside running?  Or should I just skip it?  After all, there would be warmer days soon.  And if I skip it, then I could watch a little more of the football game.

What motivates us to keep on forging forward?

Deep down, I have a real desire to live a healthy lifestyle.  It’s a big goal, one that on some days I really “get”, and then on other days, I don’t.  Maybe you have experienced that with some of your own goals and dreams, too.  Moments where it all comes together beautifully, and others where you take a few steps away from these dreams you have.

All of this bounced around in my head.  I have choices.

I put on a sweatshirt and wind pants, and headed out.

What do you do, even when it’s not the “ideal” conditions? And is it ever perfectly “ideal”?

A cold and gray afternoon.  And I ran.  It wasn’t long until I was rolling the sleeves up on my sweatshirt.  I warmed up and really settled into my stride.  The crisp air heightened my senses – I noticed everything around me.  I arrived home, not tired and cold.  I arrived home refreshed and renewed!  What a great feeling to have been out there, especially when I first had thoughts of skipping it, and to have come back home with that feeling of bursting excitement over it all.

Those things that matter, those things that speak to our heart, those big audacious dreams…

They are so worth rolling our sleeves up for.

They are so worth going after, even in less than ideal circumstances.

Life is in the choices we make.

Choose to give your dreams wings…

(Note from Stacey:  When you choose to give your dreams wings, no matter the outcome, that is feel-good living. Thanks, Lance for sharing your message here today.) Lance was guest posting for Stacey & so she added this comment.

What are you doing to make your dreams come true? Are things holding you back. How will you let go? If you have made your dreams come true, what obstacles did you surpass to get there. OR, are you a "in the works" type of person like me.

When was the last time you stopped to "look around" and smell the roses?

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Past Catching Up With the Present

Thursday, February 18, 2010




Did any of you catch Oprah on Tuesday? I recorded it & watched it later as I did some ab/core work. It was a show all about "makeunders". People that have gone too far in terms of make-up, hair and more. They all were really great stories but the very first one caught my attention. It called out to the many stories I read on blogs every day & even to my own life. We all have these circumstances in our lives.... when we are young & even as we age.

If you were heavy as a kid, many of you may have had the same experience as I had where kids teased you & made fun of you being heavy. Even if the comments were made as a "semi joke", it still hurt. These types of experiences can certainly stay with you life long. I know sometimes those hurtful comments creep back into my mind. I definitely know that they effected the way I felt about myself & whether I thought I was as good as my friends or other people. It did stop me from attempting certain things. Not all things but definitely some things. And to this day, I think the "fat kid" sits back in my mind still. But now, I think it is more that I want to prove I am no longer that fat kid they teased back then. I got on this fitness craze because of that & at least something good came of it in that sense.

With Dawn, in the before & after pictures above, she had this to say: "Dawn says, she didn't always look this way. "As a child, I would say that I was very much a girl next door. I was very shy," she says. "High school, for me was really, really hard. I was told by teachers that I wasn't going to make very much out of myself. It was a really sad, lonely time for me. After being told she wasn't good enough or thin enough, Dawn began to change her look. When she was 21 years old, she started working out, dieting, tanning and dressing differently. "People started giving me attention," she says." You can read her complete story here.

It is incredible how circumstances in our lives & how people act, treat & talk to us can so greatly effect our mental state, how we feel about ourselves & really how we feel about how good we are in relation to others. It makes us think we are less important than the person next to us.

But it also effects those around you... family AND CHILDREN! For those with children, I am sure you can relate to this. You don't want your children to have body issues or food issues or issues with liking themselves. In Dawn's case above, her children had to endure what friends & people all around them called their mother even though she was much different than her appearance made her out to be...

In real life, think about when you are out. Do you tend to judge others based on their appearance & looks? I think we all do at some point & it is as hurtful to them as it was to us when we heard the name calling directed at us. Have you ever had the opportunity to then talk to a person you judged badly & found out what a wonderful person they really are? I am guilty too!

I know many of you have really come far from these days & feel good about yourself no matter what. But, I guess we also have to step back & make sure that we are not doing to others what was done to us & we certainly don't want to show that type of behavior to our kids.

Does any of this hit home? Have you had experiences in your life that made you act or do things differently than you would now? How have you got past the bad feelings & learned to like yourself? Do any of you hide behind things like make-up, clothes or hair? Me, I think I hide behind being fit. Really, I am serious!

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